I'm afraid of girls

**Kirby** · November 25th, 2002

Not really afraid, but I just can't talk to them. Expecially girls that I like, but they don't know that. I keep on saying "what is there to lose?" but I never can start a conversation with any of them. Any help, please, I'm begging!

Hanamichi · November 25th, 2002

A psychiatrist?

**Kirby** · November 25th, 2002

Won't help. I need someone who was as desperate as I am right now

shinji^ · November 25th, 2002

Well, I had the same problem here, but it's often when you try to talk to girls who you like/love.. It's not easy, but think of yourself; of you won't try at least, you will get nowhere. Get a grip on yourself. Try your best

**Ryos** · November 25th, 2002

Quote:

Originally posted by Kirby
I need someone who was as desperate as I am right now

You rang?

Read through http://www.ngemu.com/forums/showthre...threadid=12241 for some advice.

Christemplar · November 25th, 2002

Hah, Kirby you got someone with the same boat as you are!

I'm afraid of girls. Especially my mom.

Sir Key · November 25th, 2002

hey no worries dude you're "only" 15 years old... you won't find the girl for life now either.... stop thinking there's a different in mind of the girls than in those of the boys.... it's no big deal.... i mean hey they are just humans and the problems you currently face has been faced by many persons on earth (and still does) don't await to much from a "girl" she can't give you much more than a good friend can do... except kisses and other stuff

you can do exactly the same things with girls that you can do with boys.... it's like einstein already said... the most important thing is the perspective from wich you look at something....

**Shadow Lady** · November 25th, 2002

heh, my best friend on sk00l has that problem too, but he said to me that he solved that by finding a good girl friend so he began to understand how to solve tha problem, I think is cute a guy who is that timid ^^

Christemplar · November 25th, 2002

At least that guy talked to you, SL.

So I guess what gender did that guy thought of you?

**Kane** · November 25th, 2002

I'm not afraid of talking to girls, but I am afraid of 'confessing', it's a natural 'what if' fear.

Christemplar · November 25th, 2002

Yeah, 'What if she rejects me?' One of the examples.

Hydra · November 25th, 2002

Oh well sometimes you gotta take a chance no matter what the outcome, at least you tryed.

ready2rumbelX · November 25th, 2002

Kirby, the first thing is to relax. Girls are very easy to talk to, as much as it is to boys. Start a conversation and keep it cool, you can tell straight away if you two can get along BY the way you're getting along, usually a good conversation shows that. Take it slowly from there, don't try to rush...if something is meant to happen then it's meant to happen. I know you're only 15, but remember what i'm gonna tell you, cause I know from my own experience, 'you will always regret never doing what might be the beginning of something great and new. I messed up on SOO many occasions cause I was scared of being rejected, but one day I told her how I felt.....you know what? She felt the same way! Then I asked her out....she said 'YES'!! So, never back out, yes there is a chance that it won't work, but take that chance....you won't be sorry.

ready2rumbelX

**Ryos** · November 25th, 2002

> hey no worries dude you're "only" 15 years old. you won't find the girl for life now either

If you go by that logic, you'll be 21 and have never gone on a date before you know it. The sooner one gets one's feet wet, the better.

shinji^ · November 25th, 2002

I must say I agree with Ryos... it's not a good logic. Try to get a girlfriend, you know, the sooner, the better^^

ready2rumbelX · November 25th, 2002

Gaining the knowledge and experience of being with a man/woman (or boy/girl) as early as possible will greatly benefit one for future encounters/experiences with a partner of either sex. That's why I suggest to all, never be in a possition of regret, take that step and action, whether it be to talk to that girl, or ask her out.

ready2rumbelX

**Kane** · November 25th, 2002

I agree with Ryos on this. If you don't ever ask a girl, it'll never get any easier.

Sir Key · November 25th, 2002

it should be called "the sooner the higher the possibility to fail" if he can't talk to girls how should he have a girlfriend... first learn what the girls think then talk to them...

**Ryos** · November 25th, 2002

There's always the possibility of failing. That doesn't mean you shouldn't try. If you don't try, it'll never happen. If you do, who knows? Maybe it won't happen. But maybe it will.

**Dark Watcher** · November 25th, 2002

phobia of woman..heh...seems natural enough...guys always get the quesys when a woman they lust after is nearby...It takes practice to overcome this scenario..Talk to random woman you don't have interest in...for practice...you will find that they are easy enough to talk to....

Now the bonus is eventually you develop the "art form"....and that is being able to tell a woman what "she" wants to hear...

November 25th, 2002	#1 (permalink)
Kirby Politically incorrect FTW Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: Massachusetts, USA Posts: 8,445	I'm afraid of girls Not really afraid, but I just can't talk to them. Expecially girls that I like, but they don't know that. I keep on saying "what is there to lose?" but I never can start a conversation with any of them. Any help, please, I'm begging! __________________ AMD Athlon64 X2 4400+ Toledo, Nvidia GeForce 7950GT SLi, 2GB PC3200 2-3-2-5, ABit AN8-SLi, Sound Blaster X-FI XtremeMusic

November 25th, 2002	#3 (permalink)
Kirby Politically incorrect FTW Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: Massachusetts, USA Posts: 8,445	Won't help. I need someone who was as desperate as I am right now __________________ AMD Athlon64 X2 4400+ Toledo, Nvidia GeForce 7950GT SLi, 2GB PC3200 2-3-2-5, ABit AN8-SLi, Sound Blaster X-FI XtremeMusic

November 25th, 2002	#4 (permalink)
shinji^ Registered User Join Date: Nov 2002 Location: Hungary Posts: 159	Well, I had the same problem here, but it's often when you try to talk to girls who you like/love.. It's not easy, but think of yourself; of you won't try at least, you will get nowhere. Get a grip on yourself. Try your best __________________ I'm afraid of being hated... I don't want to be hated again!! [sig=275]

November 25th, 2002	#6 (permalink)
Christemplar Angel Join Date: May 2002 Location: A place beyond beyond. Posts: 2,296	Hah, Kirby you got someone with the same boat as you are! I'm afraid of girls. Especially my mom. __________________ Writing of Insanity

November 25th, 2002	#8 (permalink)
Shadow Lady Advanced Newbie Join Date: Jul 2001 Location: Bogotá... not that it matters... Posts: 4,953	heh, my best friend on sk00l has that problem too, but he said to me that he solved that by finding a good girl friend so he began to understand how to solve tha problem, I think is cute a guy who is that timid ^^ __________________ Main Rig: Pentium Dual-Core E2160 @ 2.5GHz -- 7600GT @ 650/800MHz -- 2GB DDR2-667 4-4-4-12 -- Windows XP Pro SP3 Collecting dust: AMD Athlon XP 2600+ -- ATI Radeon 9500 Pro -- SB Live 5.1 Digital -- 2.5GB DDR 2-2-2-5 Ram -- Windows 2003 server r2 SP1

November 25th, 2002	#2 (permalink)
Hanamichi Crotally Tazy Join Date: Jun 2001 Location: Malaysia Posts: 4,573	A psychiatrist?

November 25th, 2002	#7 (permalink)
Sir Key Banned Join Date: Jul 2002 Location: Nirvana Posts: 1,945	hey no worries dude you're "only" 15 years old... you won't find the girl for life now either.... stop thinking there's a different in mind of the girls than in those of the boys.... it's no big deal.... i mean hey they are just humans and the problems you currently face has been faced by many persons on earth (and still does) don't await to much from a "girl" she can't give you much more than a good friend can do... except kisses and other stuff you can do exactly the same things with girls that you can do with boys.... it's like einstein already said... the most important thing is the perspective from wich you look at something....

November 25th, 2002	#9 (permalink)
Christemplar Angel Join Date: May 2002 Location: A place beyond beyond. Posts: 2,296	At least that guy talked to you, SL. So I guess what gender did that guy thought of you? __________________ Writing of Insanity

November 25th, 2002	#10 (permalink)
Kane 邪魔ゎ指せない Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: Gosport, England Posts: 26,255	I'm not afraid of talking to girls, but I am afraid of 'confessing', it's a natural 'what if' fear. __________________ >Site Live< Pop over to my site for help with setting up PSX emulators. Help for the Final Fantasies and other RPGs avalaible Celes: (Desktop) Athlon 64 X2 4200+, 2Gb 400MHz DDR Ram, MSI K8N Platinum, GeForce 8800 GTS 320Mb, 500Gb RAID HDD, Vista Business Erika: (MCPC) Athlon XP 2400+, 1Gb 400MHz DDR Ram, geForce 6800 256Mb, 80Gb Hdd, XP 2005 MCE Kimiko: (Desktop 2) Athlon 64 3000+, 512Mb 400MHz DDR Ram, Asus K8V, geForce 6800 128Mb

November 25th, 2002	#11 (permalink)
Christemplar Angel Join Date: May 2002 Location: A place beyond beyond. Posts: 2,296	Yeah, 'What if she rejects me?' One of the examples. __________________ Writing of Insanity

November 25th, 2002	#12 (permalink)
Hydra ???!!!???!!!?!?! Join Date: Apr 2002 Location: In your lunchbox. No don't open the lid! Ack the light it burns. Posts: 2,183	Oh well sometimes you gotta take a chance no matter what the outcome, at least you tryed. __________________ Mobo: Asus A8V Deluxe CPU: AMD Athlon 64 3000+ RAM: 1024MB DDR400 Dual Channel Graphics: nVidia Geforce FX 6600 GT 128MB DDR3 HDD: 260GB OS: Windows XP SP2

November 25th, 2002	#13 (permalink)
ready2rumbelX InnarX Join Date: Jul 2002 Location: Borderline InSAnE Posts: 2,684	Kirby, the first thing is to relax. Girls are very easy to talk to, as much as it is to boys. Start a conversation and keep it cool, you can tell straight away if you two can get along BY the way you're getting along, usually a good conversation shows that. Take it slowly from there, don't try to rush...if something is meant to happen then it's meant to happen. I know you're only 15, but remember what i'm gonna tell you, cause I know from my own experience, 'you will always regret never doing what might be the beginning of something great and new. I messed up on SOO many occasions cause I was scared of being rejected, but one day I told her how I felt.....you know what? She felt the same way! Then I asked her out....she said 'YES'!! So, never back out, yes there is a chance that it won't work, but take that chance....you won't be sorry. ready2rumbelX __________________ ready2rumbelX -Intel Core 2 Quad Q6600 (@3200Mhz) -Gigabyte 965P-S3 motherboard -2x2GB G.Skill PC-6400 (DDR2 800Mhz) RAM (4-4-4-12) -Seagate 320GB (IDE) and Western Digital 500GB (SATA II) H.D -Sapphire Radeon HD 4870 512MB GDDR 5 (850/4600) -Windows Vista Ultimate SP1 (x64) -Realtek HD w/ Creative PC Works 5.1 -2 x L.G DVD/CD-RW Combo - GSA-H62N

November 25th, 2002	#14 (permalink)
Ryos Revenger of Vengeance Join Date: May 2001 Location: Nowhere Posts: 11,250	> hey no worries dude you're "only" 15 years old. you won't find the girl for life now either If you go by that logic, you'll be 21 and have never gone on a date before you know it. The sooner one gets one's feet wet, the better. __________________ Sanity is overrated.

November 25th, 2002	#15 (permalink)
shinji^ Registered User Join Date: Nov 2002 Location: Hungary Posts: 159	I must say I agree with Ryos... it's not a good logic. Try to get a girlfriend, you know, the sooner, the better^^ __________________ I'm afraid of being hated... I don't want to be hated again!! [sig=275]

November 25th, 2002	#16 (permalink)
ready2rumbelX InnarX Join Date: Jul 2002 Location: Borderline InSAnE Posts: 2,684	Gaining the knowledge and experience of being with a man/woman (or boy/girl) as early as possible will greatly benefit one for future encounters/experiences with a partner of either sex. That's why I suggest to all, never be in a possition of regret, take that step and action, whether it be to talk to that girl, or ask her out. ready2rumbelX __________________ ready2rumbelX -Intel Core 2 Quad Q6600 (@3200Mhz) -Gigabyte 965P-S3 motherboard -2x2GB G.Skill PC-6400 (DDR2 800Mhz) RAM (4-4-4-12) -Seagate 320GB (IDE) and Western Digital 500GB (SATA II) H.D -Sapphire Radeon HD 4870 512MB GDDR 5 (850/4600) -Windows Vista Ultimate SP1 (x64) -Realtek HD w/ Creative PC Works 5.1 -2 x L.G DVD/CD-RW Combo - GSA-H62N

November 25th, 2002	#17 (permalink)
Kane 邪魔ゎ指せない Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: Gosport, England Posts: 26,255	I agree with Ryos on this. If you don't ever ask a girl, it'll never get any easier. __________________ >Site Live< Pop over to my site for help with setting up PSX emulators. Help for the Final Fantasies and other RPGs avalaible Celes: (Desktop) Athlon 64 X2 4200+, 2Gb 400MHz DDR Ram, MSI K8N Platinum, GeForce 8800 GTS 320Mb, 500Gb RAID HDD, Vista Business Erika: (MCPC) Athlon XP 2400+, 1Gb 400MHz DDR Ram, geForce 6800 256Mb, 80Gb Hdd, XP 2005 MCE Kimiko: (Desktop 2) Athlon 64 3000+, 512Mb 400MHz DDR Ram, Asus K8V, geForce 6800 128Mb

November 25th, 2002	#18 (permalink)
Sir Key Banned Join Date: Jul 2002 Location: Nirvana Posts: 1,945	it should be called "the sooner the higher the possibility to fail" if he can't talk to girls how should he have a girlfriend... first learn what the girls think then talk to them...

November 25th, 2002	#19 (permalink)
Ryos Revenger of Vengeance Join Date: May 2001 Location: Nowhere Posts: 11,250	There's always the possibility of failing. That doesn't mean you shouldn't try. If you don't try, it'll never happen. If you do, who knows? Maybe it won't happen. But maybe it will. __________________ Sanity is overrated.

November 25th, 2002	#20 (permalink)
Dark Watcher Coffee Demon Join Date: Jun 2001 Location: Darkness, Unknown Posts: 2,898	phobia of woman..heh...seems natural enough...guys always get the quesys when a woman they lust after is nearby...It takes practice to overcome this scenario..Talk to random woman you don't have interest in...for practice...you will find that they are easy enough to talk to.... Now the bonus is eventually you develop the "art form"....and that is being able to tell a woman what "she" wants to hear... __________________

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