Perfect Mate, Put these in order please

[blueshogun96]

Try putting these qualities in the order that you see most important to make the perfect man/woman for yourself...

Respectfull
Can cook
Big boobs / defined chest
Smart
Dead Serious about you
Sex Machine
Non-abusive
Sexyness
Curves / muscles

This is what I want...

1. Dead serious about you <- can't find this one :hdbash:
2. Non-abusive
3. Respectfull
4. Can cook
5. Curves
6. smart
7. Sex-macine
8. Sexyness
9. Big boobs

[Dark Watcher]

Made some changes for the ladies. We don't think boobs on a man will suit them ;)

[blueshogun96]

Made some changes for the ladies. We don't think boobs on a man will suit them ;)
Thank's DW, I would have said pecs but oh well.

[Cid Highwind]

Where is the 'matching personality' ?
Trust is important as well, you can cover this all perhaps under something as 'sweetness' :)

But what do you mean with 1. Dead serious about you ?

[Popuri]

that i put some points at the end does not mean it isn't important to me :p

1. Respectfull
2. Dead Serious about you
3. Non-abusive
4. Sex Machine
5. smart
6. Can cook
7. Sexyness
8. muscles
9. Big boobs / defined chest (like both xD)

[__Xzyx987X]

Dead Serious about you
Smart
Non-abusive
Sexyness
Respectfull
Curves
Sex Machine
Big boobs
Can cook

The most important thing for me really, is just that she have a personality that I can relate to. As for the cooking, I could be happy eating microwaved meals for the rest of my life if I found a girl who was nice enough :).

[blueshogun96]

Where is the 'matching personality' ?
Trust is important as well, you can cover this all perhaps under something as 'sweetness' :)
Hmm... didn't think of that.

But what do you mean with 1. Dead serious about you ?
I mean someone who isn't pretending to go out with you or someone who really doesn't like you for who you are. That's the one reason why I'm single today. ;) Don't think I'm sexist but since highschool (when not only the school's students liked seeing me made fun of, but even a few teachers) <- :mad: :angry: :cuss2: :hdbash: I've had a very hard time trusting women (girls were even harder to trust). Often I'd get one that was pretending to like me to make me look bad. Usually, I just played along knowing the truth the whole time. There was one "woman" that was "for real" but she asked a "girl" that I didn't trust to ask me for my digits. I didn't belive her, and so i missed out on a pretty woman. There's one more woman where I live that I think is worth marrying, and if I get turned down, then I guess I will have to move west back to my home city Seattle. Either way, I'm moving back. And another thing... to me, the difference between girl and woman to me is that girl sounds less mature then woman. That's why I use woman all the time.

EDIT: I didn't give you a good example how it was really like back then. High school was just like this:
:redrush:

[Cid Highwind]

well then my list will be the same as yours, though that first point and 'respectfull' have about the same meaning to me.


Anyway, I find this one a nice addition to this topic:

If you fall
I'll catch
If you love
I'll love
And so it goes my dear
Don't be scared
You'll be safe
This I swear
If you only love me back


It's from the song I'm currently listening :p

[Razor Blade]

Non-abusive
Sexyness
Respectfull
Smart
Sex Machine
Dead Serious about you
Can cook
Big boobs
Curves

Seems physical attributes aside (I like my women skinny with average boobs - not big) I seem to like compatibility. :) I can cook, so she doesn't have to.

[blueshogun96]

I can cook, so she doesn't have to.
You really are like no other! I can't cook for nuthin :lol:

[Cid Highwind]

You can always learn to cook, but it's nice to cook together :)

There are a lot of things that aren't that difficult at all. And here in holland there are a lot of oriental spice mixes which form a nice basis for a sauce or something and on the back of the package there's a step by step description of how to cook it :)

And these things can be very tasty :D

[Razor Blade]

Hell, she can always make Lipton Sidekicks (for those of you who don't know) It's about as easy as Kraft Dinner but tastes so much better!

[Cid Highwind]

And what's Kraft Dinner? :p (I really don't know, honest! :D)

[cloudvii]

I removed some . That's my one ;) .

Dead serious about you
Respectfull
smart
Non-abusive
Sexyness
Can cook (she can learn at least :) , as u know she's smart ;) )

[Razor Blade]

>>And what's Kraft Dinner? :p (I really don't know, honest! :D)

LOL, sure .... :p

[Strider]

1: zzzzZexy
2: zex machine
(hey, atleast i dont try to hide it :p)
3: Not abusive
4: D.S.A.U.
5: Respectful
6: All the right curves
7: Smart
8: Can cook
9: big boobs (meh. im more of an assman)

[N1ghtw0lf]

Too many physical traits. Sure i don't mind good looking people, but i wouldn't really take that into account if i really liked them. Respect and Serious are about the only 2 on there i would say that i care ALOT about. Despite me being obnoxious sometimes, i can be serious if i need to, when other people are constantly obnoxious it bugs me. And i definately wouldn't date someone who was abusive :p

[Kurbster]

Dead Serious about you
Respectfull
Smart
Non-abusive
Sexyness
Curves
Big boobs / defined chest
Sex Machine
Can cook (pppfff...I can cook just fine)

I bet I shocked alot of people with the order I put them in :p

[Strider]

I bet I shocked alot of people with the order I put them in

yeah... cooking at the bottom o.0 ???

:p

[RF]

Dead Serious about you
Smart
Respectfull
Non-abusive
Sexyness
Curves
Sex Machine
Can cook
Big boobs

:)

[N1ghtw0lf]

Dead Serious about you
Respectfull
Smart
Non-abusive
Sexyness
Curves
Big boobs / defined chest
Sex Machine
Can cook (pppfff...I can cook just fine)

I bet I shocked alot of people with the order I put them in :pI was expecting yours to be more like

They're Animated
They Enjoy Tentacles
t3h breasts
can cook

;)

[Kurbster]

lemme set the record straight....I hate tentacles....HATE!!!! :P

[RF]

lemme set the record straight....I hate tentacles....HATE!!!! :P

No, but women with penises are just fine oO :p

[Razor Blade]

Errr ... Kirb those aren't women ... :p

[Kurbster]

Errr ... Kirb those aren't women ... :pI know that....Nightwolf just happened to bring it up (again) :p

[Dark Watcher]

Big boobs
Sexyness
Curves
Smart
Sex Machine
Dead Serious about you
Respectfull
Can cook
Non-abusive
:D

[DarkAurora]

Smart
Sexyness
Dead Serious about you
Respectful
Defined Chest
Sex Machine
Can Cook
Non-Abusive
Muscles (I don't like a guy with too many muscles. Just enough, so he has a defined chest and a few abs. ;))

[Narrrf]

Respectful
Dead Serious about you
Smart
Curves / muscles
Non-abusive
Sexyness
Can cook
Big boobs / defined chest
Sex Machine

I want someone who takes care of themself and others first. The whole sex machine thing actually kinda scares me. And some of these definitions are too limited. What does smart mean?

[scottlc]

A few points:

1) Smart means intellegent.
2) What are Kraft Dinners? Some kind of ready meal made by Kraft perhaps?

Probably (added one of my own):

1. No pen0r :p
2. Dead serious about you
3. Non-abusive
4. Respectfull
5. Smart
6. Can cook
7. Curves
8. Sexyness
9. Sex-macine
10. Big boobs

Too many physical factors in there IMO.

[blueshogun96]

No, but women with penises are just fine oO :p
Uhh... I'd say not it's not, but no one cares what I think.

It looks like everyone has better taste then I thought. I was expecting big boobs (and other physicals) to first for the guys. I say true love is blind:)

[scottlc]

Uhh... I'd say not it's not, but no one cares what I think.
The point that, from what I hear, Kirby likes hentai where the girls have pen0rs. Weird indeed. oO

[Cid Highwind]

What would they need one for?
We already have men for those :p

Weird ppl those hentai creators... :rolleyes:

[blueshogun96]

What would they need one for?
We already have men for those :p

Weird ppl those hentai creators... :rolleyes:
My thought's exactly. I mean really, who want's to see pikachu rape a girl? It's sounds s0o0o0oo0o0o0o0 retarted if you ask me. I hate hentai, infact, I hate pr0n altogether. Yeah, I know it's weird for a guy to say i hate pr0n, but there are better things in life. Why waste time looking at pr0n when you could be working on you killer game that could be as good as Half-life or halo or some other popular game? In other words why spend money for temporary pleasure when you can make money for years of pleasure? I know money does not bring happiness because you can't buy a good wife with money.

[scottlc]

Sorry, but the old "Don't look at pr0n, you could be coding Half Life!" argument isn't going to convince many people.

[blueshogun96]

Sorry, but the old "Don't look at pr0n, you could be coding Half Life!" argument isn't going to convince many people.
Well, I wasn't trying to convince anyone. It's just the way blueshogun works.

[Quatro]

Dead Serious about you
(additional) patient and understanding
Respectful
Smart
Can cook, iron and wash clothes :D
Sexyness
Curves / muscles
Sex Machine
Big boobs / defined chest
Non-abusive

[_E_]

Loving
Caring
Respectful
Supportive
Beautiful
Reasonable

Yours,
-Elly

[Cid Highwind]

Sorry, but the old "Don't look at pr0n, you could be coding Half Life!" argument isn't going to convince many people.
But what about the: "Don't look at it, just go for it and have your own!" argument ;)

[blueshogun96]

But what about the: "Don't look at it, just go for it and have your own!" argument ;)
That's what I usually say. Why watch two people have sex when you can get married and get your own lay?

[Cid Highwind]

Why get married and have sex while you can have sex without marriage? :rolleyes:

Alright, getting a little off topic here I think :p Better quit it now :(

[blueshogun96]

Why get married and have sex while you can have sex without marriage? :rolleyes:

Alright, getting a little off topic here I think :p Better quit it now :(
Let me jump in and out for just a sec.

Why have sex after marrige? So you can have kids with the one you love for life. My kid is not comming from a hooker. The positive side of having sex before marrige is that you can find out if your lover is a transexual. :thumb:

BTW: Cid, how many girlfriends have you had? Me? 0

[Boltzmann]

Respectfull
Smart
Dead Serious about you
Sex Machine
Big boobs
Non-abusive
Sexyness
Curves
Can cook (I don't really need a girl to cook, I thrive on fast food :evil: )
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Smartness is a must. Not knowledge, but general intelligence. I don't mind if a girl does not know what, say, causal validity semantics are, but I do care if she's unable to understand the concept.

Of course I'm talking about long-term relationships here. My requirements for short-term relationships would be different (put big boobs and curves waaaay up :drool: ) - though I've never been into one :p

[Cid Highwind]

Just to answer any question in one post:

I've had one gf for 16 months, we broke up in may, though not all ended there :)
Yes we had sex, it was great, it took a while before we came to that point and we never regret it though our relationship is over now. Though we don't know if we will end up together again in the future, cause there is a chance we will.

Just to your knowledge: We both were virgin when we started our relationship :)
I'm not the person that will have sex with 'just a girl'.