Schumi, I'm afraid you haven't been there so you can't understand it.
I'm not defending it nor am against it. I'm just trying to explain it so people can understand it better but arguing with you and reading Soul Eater's post made me realize something: Nobody can understand it unless they have been there.
Otherwise, it's just wishful thinking when somebody sits comfortably in his couch and from there try to give an opinion on somebody else's life.
Like I said before:
Preaching about suicide being wrong it's like talking about sports and how the player did bad in the game: You are not the one who is playing, you are the one who is sitting comfortably on the coach and making decisions from there as if you were actually playing but truth is you don't know what it is to play it for real.