guys, if i find alot of people read this guide i'll consider going over and fixing all the grammatical errors.
i wrote this as i would a forum post, not an english essay; so i didn't really care to check for capitalization/grammar/spelling mistakes.
hopefully, people will still be able to understand what its saying.
john rarris, thanks for the comment. at least i know i've helped someone out, and didn't write this in vain
btw Phil, i'm a girl. but usually people on forums think i'm a guy, probably due to the way i talk